Very curious choice for a youth pastor to be handing out. It may simply be he is a unthinking, immature bonehead. The other side is much more conserving as you have stated. I would be seriously looking forward to our next “chance meeting”. He need to be asked his intent and communicated that is was not a good reflection on any church, given the history of sexual abuse and downright heinous behaviors that have been meticulously documented by church leaders in the recent past. Good luck, update us on what happens.