Truly! Relax, put in a little effort, buy a meal, drink of coffee and be a gentlemen. Have some interests and don’t go into a date with a bunch of baggage to unload on your potential match. Chivalry is not dead, woman want sex as much as men do. Simply be half normal, adhere to social norms in dating, remember woman are on guard against predators and don’t act like an idiot. Simple things, and you will get laid!