Life unfortunately is exactly like middle school. The haves want more and take with impunity. The have nots are ostracized. If a middle achooler can overcome real injustice. I think a play on names is prettty easy stuff for an adult to handle. Maybe even just go with it and laugh (remember laughing). Then go take your name back from the people making it a slur. Don’t just walk by when you see injustice. Get out of your own head, it shows and makes you a self absorbed such and such.