Incels seem to have a lot in common with fundamentalist suicide terrorists. Most are involuntarily (under penalty of death In many cases) celibate and have never even been allowed to see a woman face except their own family. In the movie, Charlie Wilson’s War, Tom Hanks has a great line about this. Incels, do you really want to be compared to terrorist jihadis? Stop thinking like a creep and you might find that a little kindness, chivalry, friendship and a solid foundation will help you attract quality woman. The guy who wishes for 3 separate girls a day every day, has no idea how wrong minded and how much work that would really be. How about one woman who can’t keep her hands off you. Want’s to indulge your fantasies and feels safe to indulge hers as well. Pretty Sweet! Not because of your bank account, car, house, member size, looks or other shallow measurement. Remember the largest sex organ is the brain. Start your journey at the mind gentleman and work your way down to the heart and the rest is for you to find out. Touch a woman’s heart and head genuinely, without trickery or deceit. And your world will change.
If your not supremely handsome, it does not matter. Be interesting (read or listen to a good book), intelligent (girl nerds are a thing now) and many woman of substance love smart over pretty by vast numbers. Be compassionate to others and help those in need without bragging about it. Show love to others not only yourself.
In general be a good mature Man of substance or really working on it. How to be a good man is beyond this post, think about it. Ask your mom, sister, aunt or any woman who knows you well.
Hint: the good woman is usually not the hottest in the room. And the best sex you have yet to have will more than likely not be with the hottest woman you will ever be with or never meet.
If your on 4 Chan talking smack on woman, your not a good man. Go get a life time supply of hand lotion, it’s all your gonna get. STOP going online to air your grievances. Sure woman can be as callous, conniving, shallow and vile as men can, welcome to 2021. It’s not their gender and it’s not your looks that make you an incel. It’s your attitude. Forgot your looks and hers. Look for a quality person, spend more time than a shallow bar conversation before trying to “Get into her pants” Be more than a shallow person and you may meet some women and maybe even befriend one.
Hint: Your best friend that is a girl, is a great sounding board and can be the perfect wingman, not your Incel friends.
Don’t meet her in a bar. Bars are like high school clicks, the strong and pretty reign. This is not your field gentlemen.
Chivalry is not dead. Open the car and restaurant door, be yourself (unless yourself is truly awful, then start at making yourself a good person, not infallible or perfect, just good a low bar certainly).
Try something other than toxic, violent, vile and juvenile antics online. It will make your condition worse. Filing your head with crap, will make you a “shit head”. No one wants to have sex with a shit head, it’s messy and Stinks as does the incel attitude.
