Boy do I hear ya! It’s easy to be infuriated by the behavior of our “religious leaders”. However, he has done no deed and as such probably needs to be seriously questioned, warned against such behavior and trained it let go. As a father, I understand your feeling and a part of me would be thrilled to let them have it. It’s a bit too early for that. We all need to take a breath and even when are kids are involved or especially because they are involved and see our behavior, model try Christian behavior they our children can emulate. I am bit saying the pastor doesn’t deserve a beating, he simply has not done anything as of yet except being stupid and more probable has a wack sense of humor. May the lord bless you and yours!!